Not that I advocate playing games, but holding back just a little, tinsy-tiny bit can have positive effect on a guy. It gives him the space to pursue you.
Which is evolutionarily wired into his man brain. Been that way for eons. No point in trying to work against that, eh?
Work with it, and let him come to you….with flowers AND chocolate!
And what to do next??
You are right on, here.
It’s SO easy once it starts to look like it’s going well, to pounce on the situation and get over-eager.
But, that’s a BIG mistake!
Because if you start pursuing a man, his hard wired instincts will make him turn around and run.
Think about it, if a tiger turns his attention on him, what’s a man to do? RUN!
But if the tiger is not paying much attention to him, and the man is hungry, what’ll he do? Creep up on the tiger, and have him for dinner (think lots of sweet nibbling).
Ok, maybe that’s a weird analogy, but you know what I mean!
So, even when the tide is turning with a new love interest and it seems like it’s heading in the right direction, keep your attention on your own life (not obsessively on him), and on being happy.
That’s when your easy going, glowing, centered, joie de vivre, will have him coming back for more, and more!
Readers: Please share- when has a little holding back helped or harmed a developing attraction?