Monday, October 6, 2008

The Key to Juggling Multiple Dates


Good question!

I call dating more than one person JUGGLING.

And juggle you must if you want to find your soulmate.

Because people disappear all the time while dating, so if you are getting to know more than one person at a time, it won’t be a big deal.

Dating is in part, a numbers game.

Plus, it helps you go slow and not get overly attached to any one person too soon.

It’s simply the most efficient and effective way to find your soulmate.

So partly, you handle it by realizing that you’re doing what is best for you and that your date is most likely doing it TOO!

AND, be honest about your dating style, from the beginning, to avoid any awkwardness later on.

Just drop a little something into an early conversation like,

"I'm looking forward to getting to know you. And just in case you’re
wondering, I’m getting to know a couple of people right now, because I'm really looking for the right person for me. But when the right person comes along, I’m ready to focus on them."

Date with integrity by being clear with your intentions.

If everyone was equally honest, imagine how much more enjoyable dating would be!

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